Kontradiksi dalam Hubungan yang melalui Proses Taaruf

Usman, Firdha As Zahra (2018) Kontradiksi dalam Hubungan yang melalui Proses Taaruf. Sarjana thesis, Universitas Brawijaya.

Abstract

Taaruf dalam agama Islam ditempatkan sebagai alternatif proses penjajakan dibandingkan berpacaran seperti pada umumnya. Di sisi lain, taaruf memiliki prinsip tertentu yang sekaligus menjadi batasan dalam sebuah hubungan seperti, masa berlangsungnya yang singkat, keberadaan fasilitator serta menghindari keterlibatan perasaan lebih jauh antara pasangan. Adanya batasan tersebut menguatkan potensi kontradiksi yang hadir selama proses taaruf berjalan. Dalam ilmu komunikasi, teori dialektika relasional menjadi kajian utama yang membahas kontradiksi dalam setiap hubungan. Respon terhadap dialektika atau pengelolaan kontradiksi oleh pasangan taaruf akan menentukan kelanjutan taaruf ke jenjang pernikahan atau pemutusan hubungan dengan kata lain proses tidak berhasil. Tujuan penelitian ialah untuk memahami dan menganalisis kontradiksi dalam hubungan yang terjadi selama proses taaruf serta upaya mengelola kontradiksi tersebut. Penelitian kualitatif deskriptif ini menerapkan metode fenomenologi dengan analisis data Van Kaam. Wawancara mendalam dilakukan pada empat orang perempuan yang menjadi informan penelitian, yakni mereka yang pernah menjalani proses taaruf, baik belum berhasil maupun telah berhasil hingga pernikahan. Hasil penelitian mengungkapkan bahwa kontradiksi hubungan dalam proses taaruf datang dari berbagai pihak yang terlibat yaitu terhadap pasangan taarufnya sendiri maupun pihak ketiga seperti orang tua dan murobbiyah sebagai fasilitator. Selain itu kontradiksi turut hadir akibat budaya dua keluarga yang berbeda serta kontradiksi masa taaruf ideal dengan masa taaruf yang dijalani.

English Abstract

Taaruf in Islam is placed as an alternative to the exploration process compared to dating as in general. On the other hand, taaruf has certain principles which are at the same time a limitation in a relationship such as a short period of time, the existence of a facilitator and avoidance of further feelings of involvement between the couple. The existence of these restrictions strengthens the potential contradictions that are present during the process of running the debate. In communication science, the theory of relational dialectics is the main study that addresses the contradictions in each relationship. The response to the dialectic or the management of contradictions by the taaruf pair will determine the continuation of the taaruf to the level of marriage or termination of the relationship in other words the process is not successful. The aim of the research is to understand and analyze the contradictions in relationships that occur during the process of taaruf and to manage these contradictions. This descriptive qualitative research applies the phenomenology method with Van Kaam data analysis. In-depth interviews were conducted on four women who became research informants, namely those who had undergone the taaruf process, both unsuccessful and successful until marriage. The results of the study revealed that the contradictions of the relationship in the taaruf process came from various parties involved, namely towards their own taaruf partners and third parties such as parents and murobbiyah as facilitators. In addition, contradictions are also present due to the culture of two different families and the contradictions of the ideal taaruf with the taaruf that is lived.

Item Type:	Thesis (Sarjana)
Identification Number:	SKR/FIS/2018/914/051811562
Uncontrolled Keywords:	taaruf, kontradiksi, dialektika, fenomenologi.taaruf, contradiction, dialectics, phenomenology.
Subjects:	200 Religion > 297 Islam, Babism, Bahai Faith > 297.5 Islamic ethics and religious experience, life, practice > 297.57 Religious experience, life, practice
Divisions:	Fakultas Ilmu Sosial dan Ilmu Politik > Ilmu Komunikasi
Depositing User:	Budi Wahyono Wahyono
Date Deposited:	15 Oct 2019 01:36
Last Modified:	25 Oct 2021 02:02
URI:	http://repository.ub.ac.id/id/eprint/164546

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